So You live with a VAMPIRE
Every morning you wake up praying that the VAMPIRE will turn to beetroot juice instead of your blood
And whole day you cry about the VAMPIRE’s appetite for your blood
Still you go to bed every night, praying that the VAMPIRE will turn to beetroot juice in the morning
A VAMPIRE’S job is to SUCK blood
And your job is to keep away from VAMPIRES unless you are yourself a VAMPIRE or you are a NINJA who can knock VAMPIRES off.
In the work that I do as a facilitator and a coach – there is this one striking element, people do not shift unless until they own their story, their path; unless until they own their share of responsibility in whatever is happening to them in their life. Owning your share of responsibility in whatever is happening to you, is just the beginning of.
The point is – it is easy to blame it on VAMPIRES, on the WORLD, on your PARENTS, on your PARTNER, on RELIGION, on your PAST, on your CATS, on the WEATHER but ultimately it is always about you.
Even if it feels painful and challenging – any awakened facilitator will magik in such a way that he/she will bring it back to YOU. YOU, as the CREATOR of YOUR LIFE.
Owning your share of responsibility in whatever is happening to you within without is the beginning of a new shift, the start of healing and a letting go of what no longer serves you.
SO PLEASE STOP AND CHECK:
Do you often blame others?
Do you expect others to change and to align with whatever you have in mind?
Do you feel you are a victim and the world out there is monstrous?
Do you feel that people often use and abuse you?
Please know that somewhere along the line, you may well not be owning your share of responsibility in whatever mess you are in right now. For ultimately, it is not about people but about you.
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